(Genesis 2:15, 3:19; Proverbs 13:4; Genesis 1:27; Galatians 3:28)

The LIE that the Bible is anti-woman. In this nation, there is a new assault on the Biblical roles of men and women. This assault is actually coming mainly from women themselves who have bought into the lies of satan about God’s role for men and women. It is being waged as a fight for women’s rights and women’s health in a political context, but make no mistake, it goes far deeper than politics.

This latest fight on this foundational issue is a great example why a politician can never be a true spiritual leader. Republican Presidential candidate Rick Santorum takes a very Biblical view on the role of women. While he is mostly right in his views from a Biblical standpoint, since he is a politician and not a theologian, he can never properly fully articulate his beliefs because in the end he is out to get votes not save souls! Since this is such a hot issue in the news, let me clarify this important subject so when you hear the news you will be able to share with others you know what is really going on.

I am always amused at the feminists and liberal theologians who state the Bible is anti-woman and that Paul was a male chauvinist. Nobody who understands God’s Word would make such a foolish claim since nothing could be further from the truth. The Bible is very much PRO woman and clearly teaches that God made men and women 100% equal with separate roles to play. Paul, in teaching equality between men and women, was a pioneer for women’s rights in a day when women were viewed as little more than property. One of the roles God has called men to play is that of a leader, a role many men have failed to live up to.

Out of the rebellion in the ’60s came the women’s movement. Satan is a liar, and the lie he told to women was that they needed to be equal with men. But if you read and study God’s Word, the TRUTH, you realize that according to God a woman is already equal to a man. Men and women are 100% equal, they simply have different roles to play. Sadly, women bought this lie and for what little strides there may have been in regard to women getting a few more dollars for their work, the long-term consequences have been disastrous for women, men, children, and society as a whole.

Two generations later the results are men and women living totally outside of the roles God intended for them to have, neither really being sure any longer what those roles even are. Let me be so bold to say that we now have the largest percentage of 2 generations of men who are spineless, gutless, confused, and lost. They fail to lead in their marriage. They fail to lead in their homes. They fail to lead in their careers. They are not the leaders God has called them to be, simply followers. Worst of all, they are not the priests of their homes, having failed in this most important role God has called them to play.

To fill the void left by men failing to perform their God-ordained roles, women have had to take on roles God never intended them to have. One of those roles is a woman working outside of the home to provide for the family. The lie of the world is that women have to go out and work. The sad reality in the year 2012 is that many men expect their wives to work and earn a certain amount of money. Let me break this down for you men, YOU, NOT YOUR WIFE, ARE SUPPOSED TO SUPPORT YOUR FAMILY!

This is not demeaning women or their abilities in any way. It is not a matter of if a woman can do the same job as a man, but the fact God never intended for them to do the same job as a man! God gave a woman the most important job of all and that is raising your children in the admonition of the Lord. No matter what else you may do in your life, that is the number one job and ministry a woman will ever have!!!

Listen, I am well aware of the argument that both spouses have to work. The reality is, economics have not changed since the days not that long ago when most women did not work. It is our desires for the things of this world that have changed. God’s plan is for men to work and support their family and women to raise the children with the help and support of their husbands. If you don’t have children, there is nothing wrong with working, but the husband is still supposed to be the primary source of support in the home. Obviously, single moms, single women, and those whose husbands are unable to work, are in special situations where you have no other choice but to work. Know that God will give you the favor, strength, and ability to provide for your family.

Women, let me give you a quick word of counsel. This is why I share so often that marriage is not something to enter into lightly. Please don’t rush into marriage! It is a lifetime commitment. Heed God’s warning about being unequally yoked. Take the time to build a spiritual foundation together. Make sure that the man you are praying about spending the rest of your life with, is a man of God who is following God’s Word and willing to perform the roles God has called him to play. Like I say so often, our way doesn’t work and only brings consequences, God’s way works and brings blessings.

The encouraging thing is every day I get prayer requests from husbands and wives who are restructuring their lives and finances so that the wife can stay at home with the children. There has been a big move in this direction the past few years as women are going back to their natural, God-given roles of being a mother and wife above everything else. This is also forcing men to perform their God-given role as the provider for their family. For you parents out there praying about doing this, let me encourage you that God will give you the wisdom and favor to restructure your lives and finances so that you can stay home with your children. God will always honor us and help us to follow His plan for our lives.

Much of the debate today has been over contraception and abortion. Do you know that if men and women followed God’s plan for sex, only in the bonds of marriage and with your spouse these issues virtually become moot? Isn’t it amazing how when we follow God’s plan life becomes so much easier. It is only when we choose to rebel against God that we end up dealing with problems we would never have to face otherwise!

I love you and care about you so much. I am praying today that men and women will embrace their God-ordained roles. The biggest problem we have in our world today is the breakdown of the family, largely due to men and women not fulfilling their God-given roles. The family is God’s foundation for society. When the family works, society works. When the family breaks down, society breaks down. We can see clearly that the breakdown of our culture in 2012 can be directly tied to the breakdown of the family. Men and women must get back to the roles God created them to play in this life.

In His love and service,
Your friend and brother in Christ,

Bill Keller

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